“My girlfriend left me because I was an idiot. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. I miss her and I want her back. But how do I do it? How can I get my girlfriend back if I’ve been a real idiot.”
Let’s face it, we all make mistakes in life. And sadly, we don’t always appreciate someone special until they leave.
You treated your girlfriend with cruelty and without heart, so she abandoned you. You acted like an idiot and that’s why you didn’t deserve it. But now you realize that you care about her and really miss her, and you wish you hadn’t treated her so cruelly.
Do not despair! There is still a chance that you can get it back. But it will take some work on your part.
The first thing you must do to get your girlfriend back is admit that you were an idiot. So if she calls you an idiot, a loser, a womanizer, and various other slimy names, you’re okay with her. You’re not going to get her back by arguing with her. Let her say. Being contrite and humble will help you get it back.
And, of course, you will have to change. All people, especially women, want to be treated as if they were special. Make her feel important. Make her feel like a queen. Take action and become a knight. Don’t tell him, but show him that you’ve changed.
Do the little things that are so important in a relationship:
Open the door for him.
· Be polite and considerate.
Tell her how beautiful she looks.
Value their ideas and opinions
Show her that you really care about her and her friends.
Give her a gift, card, or flowers for no special reason.
Be and act proud when you are with her.
Respect her feelings and be by her side when she needs comfort.
Because you have been an idiot, you will also have to convince your friends and family that you have really changed. If they too can see that you have altered your ways, they will be on your side in your quest to get it back.
And finally, reflect on the future. Will the “new and improved knight” be a permanent thing? If not, you will soon lose it again, but this time it will be forever!
The choice is yours. You can change for the better and get your ex girlfriend back, or you can continue to be an idiot living a lonely and helpless life.