It doesn’t matter if you are single, dating, in a relationship or married. You can light a spark with a well thought out and well delivered text message. To be successful with this technique, it is essential to have an understanding of the male mind. Men are visual. You have to be able to paint pictures for him to become addicted to you.
If you’re new to dating a man, it’s best to go more subtle. Save the most accurate texts for those who are married or in a stable relationship. If it’s a guy you’ve just dated, the techniques will vary from those if your relationship is established, mainly because it’s best not to start with a man at first. This means that you will have to execute your responses to his texts accordingly. By not starting with the man you are not chasing him. Men are getting used to women taking the initiative. This does not mean that they like it. By letting him lead, you stand out from the rest and this can only make him addicted.
If you are already in a relationship, you can create more visual images for the man and be more direct. This is not something you want to do every day. Being predictable won’t make him addicted to you. Being will unpredictable. If you’re always texting him mundane things like when he’s coming home or if he can stop by the store, text him some sex game out of the blue. Do this from time to time, not every day. You can start with something as simple as “I can’t stop thinking about you today.” He will ask why, which is when you mean something the two of you did in the bedroom if you get my drift. He will instantly remember that moment and start thinking about him and you.
To get a man addicted to you, you create positive triggers for the positive things you’ve shared. This builds an emotional connection. This is why text messaging works so well. His ringtone, his name on his cell phone screen become triggers for him. Triggers of passion and warm fuzzy feelings. When we have addictions in our lives, we think about them often. This is what you want to do with your texts. Make him think of you. Not you and what’s for dinner. That is annoying and creates non-addictive negative thoughts.