Your romantic relationship has turned sour. Depression washed over you when he told you it’s over. You do not know what to do. You are confused. You want to go back to him. You are not ready to see the events that overtake you. It could be that there is a second chance. So you’re hell-bent on getting your ex boyfriend back into your life.
If there was real love before, then there is a chance that love can be rekindled again. You may not be able to turn back the hands of time, but you can still work to give the relationship a second chance and hold your ex boyfriend in your arms. Take some time to think things through and find ways to make the relationship work again.
Something bad happened that obstructed the flow. You should strive for these issues to be resolved amicably. You can’t think of starting on a good grade when where you left off is a disaster. Get organized and make the necessary changes to have a great opportunity to win back your ex boyfriend.
The breakup could have been the result of “bad” behavior by one partner that the other found difficult to deal with. They both failed to resolve it and the matter degenerated into a rift. You must be able to accept responsibility and fix the problem.
The problem of infidelity can be quite difficult to tackle. Trust has been broken and regaining it is not a very easy thing to do. To regain trust again, you must give your boyfriend some time and space to get over the pains of heartbreak and he must also be given a tangible reason to believe that there may be trust again. This is where counseling comes in.
Don’t seem too needy and desperate, even if you are. When your ex boyfriend finds out that you are too desperate to get back, he will have power over you and away from you. Be positive and let him know that you really are doing well without them. They will be impressed by your confidence and will be attracted to you.
Make sure it’s the best thing you can do, having to get back together with your ex boyfriend. Will you be better off with him or without him? If so, go ahead with reconciliation. If not, give yourself a break and move on. Surely it is never the end of the world. You can still find someone else who loves and appreciates you.