Your ex is sending you mixed signals because he’s confused about his own feelings for you, but it’s driving you crazy because you just don’t know how to react. If you hope to get your ex back, this makes your job even more difficult. Read on to understand what these signs mean.
stay calm
Do not stress about the situation, mixed signals from your ex are indications that he is still confused or scared about commitment. Relax and believe in yourself to get through this difficult phase. Make sure that your ex still cares about you and will acknowledge his feelings for you.
your ex is confused
Show their confusion and maybe in time they will work out their feelings for you. However, it does mean that they are interested in you because otherwise they would not have bothered to contact you. Show patience for them to figure out their confusion on their own.
Your ex is in regular contact.
If your ex calls you regularly, it shows that he has feelings for you and cares about you. His mind may say that the relationship is over, but deep in his heart he still feels the love that is not easy to miss. He can be pretty sure that they will eventually come back to you once they understand themselves.
They are unavailable for a while.
When you’re warming up to their calls, you find them all withdrawn together. He is angry and frustrated with this uncertain behavior, but he acknowledges that he needs time to clear his mind.
be his friend
Don’t think of your ex as more than a friend for now. Keep doing what you’re busy with and if you’re thinking about dating someone else, talk to your ex and let him know that he’s not being direct. Tell them that you are confused about where this friendship is headed.
things could work out
This means that things are pretty much open and there is a chance that things could work out. It gives you a chance to discuss and offer new ideas that can improve the relationship. When things are undecided, there is always a chance that they will get better.
Give your ex the same treatment
You can do what your ex has been doing and give him the same treatment. Chances are your ex will take the hint and open up to how he really feels about you.