There are many challenges when traveling with an autistic child. There are no magic tricks, but you can avoid many risks by being flexible and planning ahead.
Knowing your child’s quirks is particularly important. Understand your child’s limitations and don’t push him beyond what he can do.
Keep treats for positive reinforcement. Reward good behaviors to divert your child’s attention whenever he is restless or stressed.
Always have a plan B. Most parents with an autistic child think two steps ahead.
Try not to pack too many activities into one day. Make sure there are plenty of breaks between activities to prevent your child from becoming overstimulated. If you are eating out for a special occasion, try doing the same activity in your hometown for 1-2 weeks. Don’t wait until the special event to see how everything will go.
Surround your child with the familiar. Make sure everything is as close to your child’s usual routine as possible. It can be helpful if you bring familiar things, like his favorite toy or book.
Guide your child on what to expect. Be consistent in reminding him of the activities planned for each day. Knowing what is coming is sure to bring a lot of comfort to your child.
You may be able to get special considerations at airlines, hotels, or amusement parks if you let them know ahead of time about your trip. Carrying a pram or wheelchair for an older child minimizes exhaustion.
When it is really necessary for you to fly with your autistic child, notify the flight attendant as soon as possible. Take some time to explain your situation to the people around you. It is best to talk to a flight attendant about placing your family in an open seating area.
If your child is on a special diet, be sure to bring food for him or her. It is also advisable that you check if the food establishments or the hotel you are going to offer suitable food for your child.
Bring mp3 players with headphones loaded with your child’s favorite music. Music has a calming effect on most autistic children. DVD players can also help make a long car ride fun. It is best if you are always prepared for the unexpected. Of course, there will be unexpected situations. But the best thing is to know how to handle them properly.