A breakup is the only logical conclusion if you’ve made horrible mistakes. It is you who ruined the relationship and now the responsibility to repair and save it also falls on you. Here you will know how you can do it; however, the results will depend on the sincerity of your efforts.
Do not waste your time
Once you’ve realized that you messed up big time, you shouldn’t waste your time and start trying to undo everything that went wrong. Gather the courage and try to meet or call your ex. This will require you to take some of the choicest abuse, but be insensitive and take it.
Get on your knees and apologize
What better way to sincerely apologize than to kneel down and do so. This should not be an act and do it only if you feel that you have hurt your ex and want to make amends.
Get in terms of speaking first
Your ex won’t accept you just because you apologized. You should first try to reestablish the connection and become friends. This phase will last a few months and you have to be patient. During this time you will have shown your sincerity.
Inches closer
Start slowly approaching your ex. On the first big day after you become friends, surprise your ex again with a thoughtful gift. It could be your ex’s birthday, Women’s Day, or Valentine’s Day or New Year’s Day. Just make sure your gift reflects your state of mind and your true feelings. This way you will get closer and he will accept you as a good friend.
Spend time and enjoy each other’s company.
Once your ex is convinced of your sincerity, they will be more open to spending time with you. Have fun and enjoy the company of others without making any physical advance. Return the smile to their lips and make your ex really happy. Your ex will find this reform more desirable.
Get nostalgic for the good times
Once he’s gotten familiar with you, you can start visiting places where you used to hang out on the weekends. Take your ex down memory lane and apologize to your ex again for making the mistakes. Also tell him that if given the opportunity, you will want to erase those mistakes from his past.
Ask for another chance
Now that you’ve made all the right noises, ask for another go for old times. If you have been honest and sincere, he will give you one. However, if you don’t have that opportunity, keep working on it immediately and one day it will definitely give in.