Why do most men end up in low intimacy or even sexless relationships?
Well, the root of the problem is ignorance… due to a lack of proactive personal development.
God designed male/female relationships so that the man is the leader and the woman is the follower.
In other words, the man is the one who creates and defines the environment and the woman responds sexually, neutrally or non-sexually within that environment.
The problem is that the typical husband has never developed himself into the caliber of a man who understands how a male/female relationship really works in order to lead such a relationship.
As a result, HE ends up creating and defining an environment in which his wife exhibits an ultra-low level of sexual expression… despite the fact that she is capable of… and indeed desires… a much higher level of sexual expression. sexual expression.
Put bluntly, if a husband does not possess the understanding and skills required to lead his wife to be an aroused woman…if a husband does not know how to create an environment that will sexually arouse his wife…then, by default, it will end in a marriage with little intimacy or even no sex.
If you did some research, you would find that most men don’t know of a single case where a husband has been married for some time and is still in a satisfying, happy, fulfilling, or emotionally rewarding relationship with his wife. .
Here’s why: A child is born into this world…and grows up under a father or father figure who has never been developed in such a way as to effectively and positively conduct a male/female relationship…and none of The adult men around him have been developed to be a successful leader of a male/female relationship…and so he grows up not knowing how to lead a successful male/female relationship…and he never commits himself to educating completely the same about how male/female relationships really work or how to conduct such a relationship… and the cycle repeats generation after generation.
Now, in those rare cases where a man has grown up under the tutelage of a father who had deliberately chosen beforehand to become a man who could successfully lead a male/female relationship, then that man would naturally and “intuitively” do the right thing to do when he entered his own marriage…because all the things he had seen his father do would seem completely appropriate to him…it would seem obvious to him that what he had seen his father do was obviously the right way to do things . .. and it would seem strange to him that so many other men did things wrong.
Unfortunately, FEW men grow up under such a father. The result is that most men grow up and come into relationship(s) with such ignorance and unawareness that it is unbelievable that they even succeed at the low level they have.
To their own misery, dads don’t proactively learn for themselves…which means they can’t be the teachers their kids are supposed to be…which means poor results or failure are pretty much the only possible outcomes for both. themselves and their offspring.
That is why I say that one of the rarest and most valuable things on earth is a man who has developed to the point where he can lead a successful marriage relationship, family relationship, or any other type of relationship.
Beautiful women are a dime a dozen. Beautiful women are everywhere. All you have to do to see a beautiful woman is turn on the television or walk out your front door. And aside from being pleasing to the eye, feminine beauty accomplishes nothing in and of itself. Feminine beauty in and of itself does nothing to make the world a better place.
But have you developed MAN? Well, that is something incredibly rare and hard to find.
Everywhere you look, you can see men who just can’t seem to get it right with their wife…and again, it’s due to their ignorance of how to run a male/female relationship.
Now everyone understands that men and women are wired differently and that they think differently.
And, what we need to understand is that relationship success comes from being a grown man who understands those differences in such a way that he can lead unity, harmony, and excitement.
What we must also understand is that when this development and understanding is lacking, the only possible result is varying degrees of disunity, disharmony, and disconnection.
However, there are developed men…men who have dedicated themselves to understanding male/female relationships do exist…and wherever you find one of these rare men, you will find a man with an exciting, affectionate, intimacy-prone woman, sexually expressive… and a man whose positive impact on the world is extensive.
Now, I want to make something clear: I don’t think of men as clumsy, inept, clumsy, dumb, or dumb.
The problem is NOT that men are stupid. The problem is that men don’t purposefully, proactively develop their understanding of male/female relationships and how to lead a woman so that they can get good results with their own woman.
The problem is that most men don’t know what they need to know in terms of relating and interacting with their lady.
Most men don’t know what they should know about their lady.
Most men don’t do what they should… and do what they shouldn’t… in relation to their lady.
Consequently, they get poor to horrible results with their lady!
Also, most men tend to be arrogant and proud in the realm of intimate relationships.
Most men tend to think that they don’t need any help in their relationship.
Most men tend to delude themselves into thinking that their relationship is fine.
Most men tend to refuse to admit to themselves… much less to others… that they need help understanding how to lead a successful relationship with their lady.
Because of these mindsets, most men tend to blame their wife (or others) for their relationship problems… at least until they get to the point where their relationship is unbearably bad or to the point of dissolution.
Strangely, the typical husband refuses to open up to the intimate relationship education he needs until his wife literally walks out the door… at which point he is FINALLY willing to admit and accept that he needs to learn how to do things. . different so that he can get better results with his wife.
But of course, at that point, your relationship or marriage is in disastrous shape.
At that point, he faces a major uphill battle in trying to convince his wife to stay with him.
At that point, he has the monumental task of trying to persuade his wife to give him another chance.
And, at that point, his wife is not open to him doing anything that will open her up or turn her on to him.
In other words, at that moment, his wife is determined to block anything he does to try to win her back.
So are men stupid? Definitely not. Are they often fools? Well, when it comes to their intimate relationship with a woman, a lot of them are absolutely dumb!
The good news is that YOU may be an exception to the norm. You can purposefully choose to become a man who fully understands how to successfully engage in an intimate relationship with his lady…and you can be one of those rare men who enjoy all the passion, affection, intimacy and sex with his lady. . what he he wants
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