Men dating women, when did it become a chore?
The dance, as some call it. We all want to dance. Isn’t this what it’s all about? Men dating women? If we’re in a relationship, we’re all trying to figure out how to make it work or how to keep it working.
If we’re not dating women, then we’re trying to figure out how to. And where. The dance.
We do this until we die. The lucky ones find love. I still enjoy seeing an old couple holding hands and walking together as if it were their first date. I guess it gives me hope. For the rest of us, much of the dating scene can be a chore.
Dating women should be less complicated. If dating women were easier for men, the whole concept could be fun.
Many men are not good at it. That is why online dating is so important. Internet dating takes away the sometimes humiliating art of picking up women.
But isn’t that the natural way to meet women? You walk up and say something. Let’s go back to the natural way men date women and explore the dating tips for guys needed to make it fun again.
Dating tip #1: hook up with a guy
Grab a friend. Don’t do it alone. This could mean limiting your golf game with your married friends. Visit some singles places and look for single guys, not just women. Having a wingman makes meeting women fun again. Now you can make plans to meet women. Take a Carnival Cruise, take a ski trip. It’s more fun with a wingman.
Dating tip #2, change your routine
Yes, change your routine. I know you go to the same places. We all do. This is good for getting things done, but it generally sucks for meeting women. Now you are single. Do things and go places where single people are going to be. Coffee at home? No. Starbucks. Do you have dinner with your married friends on Saturday night? No. Wine tasting in a trendy restaurant.
Somewhere in the mix, picking up and wooing women became a chore. “The dance” became nothing funny. Get in touch and find a new single friend. She then changes his daily routine and finds dancing exciting again.
Then maybe I’ll see you one day walking hand in hand in the park!