Some of the best wife swinger stories come from the club scene, but does that really make them the best way to go?
Many couples may be worried that the images in their heads are better or worse than the reality of swinger clubs and hangouts. Let’s look at some of the things you can expect.
Get into the swing of things
If you have ever felt like a fish out of water due to your swinger tendencies, then you can find the perfect home in swingers clubs. Through careful guidelines and well-hidden spots, swingers clubs can sort through all the deviations and find couples who are honestly interested in swinging.
You can do a search online or in your local phone book to see if there are any swingers clubs near you. Of course, if you’re in a smaller city, you may need to head to the big city for some fun.
You and your partner may also want to check out local adult themed stores to find out about private swinger events.
It’s not that local swingers are ashamed of their lifestyle, but other co-workers may not be as accepting of them, so clubs allow them to experience other couples without being ‘discovered’.
call ahead
You’ll want to contact the event planners or the club itself to speak with the owners before you go. Some places have rules they like to go over and questions they might want to ask.
And they’ll want to ask both of you, so you should both be ready to talk.
There may be dress codes or a theme for the night. This is also a great opportunity to ask any questions you may have.
This call is simply to weed out anyone who doesn’t follow the atmosphere of the club. And since they’ve probably been hosting swinger functions for a while, they have a good instinct about which ones won’t fit.
How clubs help you
Swinger clubs are a great way to interact with a select group of people without fear of having your personal information revealed. You don’t have to reveal your names if you don’t want to, so any wife-swapping stories that might happen won’t come to light.
There are also members of the security staff, as well as people who can answer any questions you may have.
Clubs are usually fun places with plenty of topics for couples to talk about, while also allowing for some darker corners for more intimate interactions.
Dress nicely and be open to what is going on around you. Many novices like to simply observe the activities around them; see what the club is about.
And this is perfectly fine.
Another great concept that most clubs employ is a no pressure policy. So if you don’t want to do something, then you don’t have to. And no one should try to convince you of anything.